Baldur's Gate 3: Ultimate Romance Guide

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Baldur's Gate 3 offers a rich tapestry of romance options that enrich the gameplay experience, providing players with some of the most memorable moments in the game. Whether you're interested in a deep, long-term relationship that unfolds throughout the campaign or a fleeting, passionate encounter, there's something for everyone. This guide will walk you through every romance option available in Baldur's Gate 3, helping you navigate the complex web of relationships without missing out on your desired romantic paths.

All Romance Options in Baldur's Gate 3

### Romance in BG3 Explained:

In Baldur's Gate 3, romance is inclusive and available to all players regardless of their character's sex or background. The game features two main types of romance options: short-term and long-term relationships, each tailored to the unique personalities and storylines of the characters involved. Some characters are open to casual encounters, while others require a more committed approach.

It's crucial to manage your relationships carefully, as certain actions can lock you out of multiple romance paths. For instance, some characters demand exclusivity, while others may be more flexible. Not all companions can be romanced, and once you commit to a relationship, it alters your interactions significantly. This means you won't be able to explore every romance option in one playthrough. Our detailed guides below will help you navigate each character's unique romantic journey.

All Romance Options:

The following companion characters can be romanced in Baldur's Gate 3:

Shadowheart
Gale
Astarion
Karlach
Wyll
Lae'zel
Halsin
Minthara

For short-term romance, you can engage with the following non-companion characters:

Mizora
Guardian/Emperor
Drow Twins
Haarlep
Naoise Nallinto

How to Romance Shadowheart in Baldur's Gate 3

Shadowheart is often the first companion you'll encounter after the crash, making her a natural starting point for romance. Her journey is deeply intertwined with the game's plot, adding an extra layer of intrigue to your relationship.

Shadowheart can be romanced both short-term and long-term, with opportunities in every act. To start a romance in Act I, keep her in your party, boost her approval by showing kindness, non-violence, and respecting her privacy, particularly by siding with her against Lae'zel. When her approval is high enough, look for the "...missed a chance to connect" dialogue or wait for the party after rescuing Halsin. During the party, share a bottle with her, choose to spend the evening with her, and follow the dialogue options that show interest, culminating in a kiss.

In Act II, you can continue the romance regardless of whether you side with Selune or Shar. Support her choices and await the nighttime event. In Act III, complete her quest and engage in the final romantic encounter, which involves a swim and leads to a special scene.

Shadowheart Romance Special Notes:

Be cautious with other romantic pursuits, as Shadowheart may end the relationship if you show interest in others, though this isn't always the case. Save your game before exploring other relationships, especially in Honor Mode.

How to Romance Gale in Baldur's Gate 3

Gale, the wizard from Waterdeep, is another key character whose romance can significantly impact the game's narrative. To romance Gale, rescue him from the portal northeast of the crash site and comply with his requests to consume magical items. In Act I, join him for a magic lesson and choose the romantic dialogue options. Be supportive during the Elminster cutscene before transitioning to Act II.

In Act III, ensure Gale survives, read "The Annals of Karsus" in Sorcerous Sundries, and speak with him before taking a long rest. Choose "Close your eyes," "Kiss Him," and "You're already everything I need you to be" to unlock a romantic scene with Gale.

Gale Romance Special Notes:

Gale prefers exclusivity and will not tolerate you romancing other characters.

How to Romance Astarion in Baldur's Gate 3

Astarion's charm and wit make him a popular choice for romance. To build his approval, add him to your party early and choose self-serving options, as he appreciates sarcasm and a lack of altruism. Allowing him to drink your blood boosts your relationship significantly. During the party, engage with him and choose dialogue options that lead to the first major romance scene, allowing him to bite you.

In Act II, take Raphael's deal to learn more about Astarion's scars, and choose supportive dialogue during the nighttime visit. In Act III, complete his quest and decide whether to support him in the ritual, which can lead to a special scene and the possibility of becoming a vampire yourself.

Astarion Romance Special Notes:

Astarion is the most open-minded about other romantic encounters, making him more flexible than other characters.

How to Romance Karlach in Baldur's Gate 3

Karlach's romance is challenging but rewarding, with her storyline deeply enriched by a romantic relationship. To start, side with her against the fake Paladins of Tyr and add her to your party early. She values kindness, understanding, and violence in defense of others. Collect Infernal Iron quickly to help Dammon cool her Infernal Engine, setting the stage for romance.

During the party, express your feelings to Karlach, and later, throw water on her to temporarily cool her off for a kiss. In Act II, continue helping Dammon with Infernal Iron at the Last Light Inn. In Act III, take her on a date to progress the romance.

Karlach Romance Special Notes:

Karlach is highly sensitive to infidelity, but it's possible to reconcile if you handle the situation delicately. Once her heart is fixed, you can commit to a long-term relationship.

How to Romance Wyll in Baldur's Gate 3

Wyll's romance enhances his conflicted storyline. To romance him, act heroically, help others, and support him in his quests, particularly in showing him the truth about Karlach. Rescue Halsin and the Tieflings at the Emerald Grove to unlock the night with him during the party.

In Act II, you'll have a special encounter after a Long Rest, where you'll find Wyll dancing. Choose romantic dialogue options. In Act III, help him save his father and complete his task with Ansur for the final romantic encounter.

How to Romance Lae'zel in Baldur's Gate 3

Lae'zel shows early interest in the player, offering both short-term and long-term romance options. To raise her approval, act decisively and aggressively, favoring action over diplomacy. Once her approval is high enough, mention her changed demeanor in camp, which can lead to a one-night stand.

In Act II, she'll visit you at night for a duel, and regardless of the outcome, you'll progress the romance. In Act III, the ending depends on whether she sides with Vlaakith or Orpheus, with the potential to be seen as a couple in the ending sequence.

Lae'zel Romance Special Notes:

Lae'zel demands exclusivity and will end the relationship if you cheat after the duel.

How to Romance Halsin in Baldur's Gate 3

Halsin's romance is popular among fans, particularly for his connection to nature. To romance him, ensure you rescue him from the Goblin Camp and complete his quests in Act II, lifting the Shadow Curse before concluding the act. Keep him in your party, as he values kindness, nature reverence, and fairness.

Exhaust all his dialogue options daily, focusing on his past lovers. Once his approval is high enough, he'll visit you at night, asking about other relationships. Shadowheart and Astarion are okay with this, but Karlach and Gale are not.

How to Romance Minthara in Baldur's Gate 3

Minthara's romance is unique, often associated with an evil playthrough. To romance her, betray your party and the Emerald Grove by siding with her at the Goblin Camp. After defeating the grove, express honor in fighting beside her, embrace the change, and open your mind, leading to her visiting your camp.

During the goblin party, tell Minthara you are hers and go to bed, where she'll join you. Pass the persuasion check to avoid her attacking you at the end of the encounter.

Minthara Romance Special Notes:

Choosing the evil route drastically changes the game's narrative, alienating your party members. Be prepared for these consequences.

All One-Off Romance Options in Baldur's Gate 3

### How to Romance Mizora:

With Wyll in your party, rescue Mizora from the Mind Flayer Colony below Moonrise Towers in Act II. In Act III, speak to her at Wyrm's Rock Fortress before Gortash's coronation, and she'll visit your camp. When she mentions something "beyond these planes," ask her what she's suggesting and smile, leading to a one-off romantic scene.

How to Romance the Guardian:

Choose to protect the Guardian/Emperor between Acts II and III, evolve into Half-Ilithid, and learn about their past lover. When the Emperor visits, hold their hand and respond positively to their advances, triggering the romance scene.

How to Romance the Drow Twins:

Visit Sharess' Caress in Wyrm's Crossing in Act III, speak to Mamzell Amira, and either complete a quest for her or pay directly. Go to the chambers as directed to initiate the scene, but avoid asking Gale or Karlach to join if you're in a relationship with them.

How to Romance Haarlep in the House of Hope:

Reach the House of Hope, cross the Mystic Force Curtain to enter the Boudoir, and engage with Haarlep, the Incubus. They'll offer a romantic encounter, which is humorous but can have consequences if you're in a relationship, particularly with Karlach.

How to Romance Naoise Nallinto:

Visit Sharess' Caress, find the locked door marked by a green lantern, and either pick the lock or get the key from Mamzell. Inside, you'll interrupt Naoise and Jara, leading to a fight with a Mindflayer. After defeating it, speak to Naoise and follow the cues to a brief romantic scene, granting the Rapture buff until your next long rest.